Self-Love, Together
A different kind of Valentine’s—
Because love doesn’t always have to be about the other person.
February 9th, 5:30pm MST
You don’t need another Valentine’s that leaves you emptier.
This Valentine’s, try something refreshingly different.
Self-Love, Together is a fun, feel-good Valentine’s night for women who want to connect with themselves—and each other—in a way that feels embodied, grounded, and actually authentic.
Instead of feeling disconnected, staying home scrolling on your phone, seeing posts about happy couples, or spiraling in your mind about what you wish your man DID do (and didn’t)—
Come as you are.
Prioritize yourself.
Leave feeling a little more present.
And a little more connected.
This is for the women who:
Want a Valentine’s experience that feels exciting, not lonely, forced, or heavy
Crave girl-time without intense emotional processing (and with women who get it)
Are tired of the same old “self-love” bullshit that doesn’t actually land in the body and create lasting change
Want to feel cozy, regulated, and seen during a time of year that places emphasis on forcing connection instead of building it authentically
Are ready to experience connection with others in a way that feels real—not performative
this is not:
Another forced “self-love challenge”
Another workshop full of jargon with no real basis
About fixing yourself because something is “wrong” with you
you might be thinking…
“I don’t really want to do Valentine’s this year.”
Or,
“I don’t want to stay home alone, but I also don’t want something cheesy.”
Because maybe you’ve already bought the self-love books.
The many journal prompts.
The mindset shifts.
And maybe Valentine’s has only made you more aware of the messages floating around—you need a partner to be complete, or if you have one, you shouldn’t need anything else.
And yet…None of that actually helped you enjoy being who you are. As you are. Without fixing, improving, or performing it.
So instead, you’re left feeling broken and dreading any reminders of that belief:“I think something is wrong with me.”
But what if the missing piece wasn’t another thing to do—
and was actually something you’ve never let yourself experience?
If you’re single, you want to feel excited about self-love and the many holidays, not like there’s something wrong with you for being on a different timeline.
If you’re in a relationship, you don’t want to lose yourself in it.
You want space for self-connection and sisterhood alongside the foundation you’ve built.You want expression instead of shame.
Authenticity instead of cringe.
A genuine feeling of love and confidence inside of yourself—not constant self-criticism.And honestly?
That shouldn’t be a big ask.
Here’s what we’ll do:
Welcome & introductions
An invitation to land in your body, not your thoughts.
Embodied experience
A somatic practice to help you find yourself and your body as an ally, not background noise that gets tuned out (my foundation for all the work I offer)
Community presence
Reflection and connection with others (in a relaxed way, no pressure applied—it’s enjoyable social connection)
Closing (and a gift!)
So you leave regulated, grounded, and full of love and confidence
This is a guided, feel-good evening with a gentle somatic practice and low-pressure community connection—nothing to prepare, nothing to perform, because there is no perfect way to be you.
So come, be, and be together. Where nothing dramatic happens… but you feel noticeably better when it’s over.
“Tora was able to guide me through a meditation process… I felt supported by her even when I felt resistance from myself and a deep sense of curiosity from her in helping me discover my inner self more.”
Sasha K.
“Thank you Tora, I’ll recommend you to anyone that wants a better understanding of themselves.”
Robyn S.
“Tora you inspired me… I’m bringing in more of myself this year!”
Sarah P.
“OMG that was so much fun!!! I’m so inspired! Thank you Toraaaa!!!”
Carla G.
“I’ve never given myself permission to take care of myself, and I owe you the credit… thank you my sweet girl… life changing.”
Jessica P.
Is this for you?
Yes, if:
You’re dreading Valentine’s Day and feel a lack of support
You don’t want to spend another holiday scrolling, distracting, and telling yourself you’re fine when you’re not
You want connection without performance
You want a Valentine’s night that feels pleasant, not pressured
You want to be in a cozy container (think warm drinks, candles, comfy clothes, and kind words)
You are open to experiencing authentic community, and showing up authentically
No, if:
You want another checklist
You want intense emotional excavation
You want a night structured around “shoulds”
All women are welcome.
Quiet women, nervous women, relaxed women, loud women.
All versions of you are valid here.
Maybe you do practice self-love… But you’re doing it alone
And it’s challenging to experience the love inside of yourself when you’re still:
Processing everything in your head because you don’t have people you feel trust sharing it with
Trying to “fix” yourself in isolation instead of being witnessed in your self-expression
Feeling like you enjoy your company, but are worried others won’t
Doing a mindfulness practice here and there with no real support system around you
Shape-shifting to be liked because you’ve never been in a space where your full expression is welcomed
Consuming self-help content because you don’t know where to bring the deeper layers
Waiting for a relationship to save you because you’ve never experienced support from women who truly hold you
Wanting girl-time with women outside of your relationship, but feeling guilty spending time away from your partner
Because self-expression deserves to be received not just by you, but by others around you.
Your nervous system learns safety through people—through community, through co-regulation, through being seen (safely).
Why this night is different
This is not therapy.
This is not mindset coaching.
This is not a spiritual “good vibes only” container.
Self-Love, Together is about:
Somatic healing (your body leads, not your thoughts)
Nervous system repair (safety before strategy)
Emotional expression (nothing gets shoved down)
Real community (not curated, not fake, not bypassing)
Embodied empowerment (you reclaim your love from the inside out)
Women tell me again and again that this is the first space where they’ve felt fully seen, deeply accepted, and supported without pressure.
imagine...
imagine...
Deeply loving the woman you know you’re meant to be
Releasing shame, having fun, and increasing your confidence
Finding that you are not broken, and never were
Knowing how deeply you belong, and deserve community where you feel accepted
Finding a kind of love for yourself that you didn’t know existed
I’ve had a love-hate relationships with these holidays, too
I grew up in a fundamentalist religion and had to rebuild my sense of self and self-love from the ground up.
I like to think of it as crafting my spine—vertebra by vertebra—until I could finally stand in my own skin with confidence.
I was surrounded by women whose learned identity was:
Stay small. Don’t speak up. Know your place. Being in a relationship defines you.
Self-love was frowned upon. You were encouraged to self-sacrifice and become a martyr. Prioritizing yourself, your boundaries, and your energy was selfish and sinful.
I felt guilt anytime I prirotized myself. I felt weird giving myself a hug the first time. Being present in my body included lots of fear and very little safety.
Until one day, I decided I wasn’t doing it like this anymore.
I wanted to move through life overflowing with love. And I knew that started with myself.
So I devoted myself to finding and creating the kind of community I never had. A space where love was reflected back to me, not judgment. I created love for myself, it mirrored me, and I developed a healthy spiral upward into overflowing with confidence and peace in my own skin.
Self-love doesn’t feel trite to me now. It doesn’t feel forced, fake, or selfish.
I feel supported. I speak up. I express myself loudly, softly, sensually, humorously—however I actually feel. I’m vulnerable, honest, and held without punishment or shame.
And the safety I’ve built inside myself is now mirrored in every relationship I choose.
I feel empowered. Bold. Sexy. Safe. And deeply, deeply real.
And I did this with solid practices and mindsets that actually created change, not just hinted at it.
ready for a different kind of valentine’s?
Come be in a room where you don’t have to carry it alone—even for just one night.
Self-Love, Together is your invitation to choose presence, community, and peace.
My secret? I let myself have it. This is possible for you, too.
Because you don’t need a partner to feel chosen.
what it’s like to be a woman attending this workshop:
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There is no right or wrong way to experience, express, or love yourself. Learn how to connect with your favorite version of yourself, and show her the love she deserves.
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Some of these women attending meet together regularly already, and we’re always looking for new gals to join us. Come hang out with us for Valentine’s, and decide if this is the kind of environment you want to have access to on a regular basis.
Think of it this way:
This night is a one-time experience.
My Women’s Circle is where this kind of connection becomes part of your life.
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Don’t just talk about loving yourself. Embody this into every cell.
We’ll be doing a meditation and somatic practice to call this energy in, live it in the current moment, and you’ll leave with a gift so you can continue living in this energy after our call.
This will be fun, not fluffy.
the safe and actually enjoyable path to self-love
A night for women who are doing everything to grow and embody confidence—and still struggle with low self-esteem, relationship troubles, emptiness, or feel alone in the process.
This isn’t about adding another tool, another habit, or another “fix” to your life. Or fixing yourself, for that matter.
It’s about using what already works for you, stirring some more good in there, and applying it in a structure that actually helps your nervous system to go, “Oh, I’m not alone anymore. I can lean into this and actually enjoy myself now.”
Finally feel confident in yourself this time.
Embrace yourself in a way you haven’t previously, and call in more of her.
No fake positivity. No spiritual bypassing.
No forcing yourself to be “fine.” No pressure to be the calm, put-together woman all the time. Just honest, embodied healing—where the full range of you is welcome (and encouraged).
Experience real sisterhood.
You’re not meant to heal in a vacuum. Your nervous system heals in connection—through community, through co-regulation, through women who actually get it.
This is where you stop carrying everything alone.
Build a new rhythm that feels like you.
Throw out the “Well, I should” or “I feel obligated to” bullshit. Create a way of embodying yourself and expressing her in a way that actually honors what makes you feel like the most expressed, vibrant, loved version of yourself.
welcome to a workshop where you’ll:
be GUIDED, not directed
Gently and powerfully walk into an embodied self-love—and understand why simple affirmations fall flat.
Alongside other women, you’ll see you’re not the only one carrying these experiences, and together you’ll unwind them and return to a grounded, steady, whole version of yourself.
embody your empowered feminine
This isn’t just a mindset practice, we make this a lived experience in the body. I’ll guide you through a somatic practice that transforms your world from the inside out. Start seeing how your internal world creates your external reality, and how to make this a reality you feel fully loved and accepted in.
experience safe community
You were never meant to practice self-love in isolation. You’ll be surrounded by women who are healing alongside you, sharing honestly, witnessing each other, and co-regulating in real time. This is where support becomes embodied—through connection, through being held, through rising together.
“We take down the shades and the curtains while we’re here and we’re just like, ‘This is who I am.’
And then you’re like, ‘Wait a minute. They still like me, they’re still talking to me. Oh! I can do this!’”
—Cathy F.
“I don’t think you understand how safe this group is.”
—Terah S.
“It’s literally like the day after you had the worst flu ever, you’re recovered enough that you need to go get something, and you’re like,
‘I can’t leave the house looking like this!’
Presenting that face to people is not something you do often, so knowing I can bring my ‘post-flu’ face, and my ADHD weirdness, is incredibly valuable.”
—Jasmine R.
“Here’s a testimonial:
We’re all fucked up—come join the fun!”
—Kaitlyn R.
People who attend my workshops tell me they leave:
Feeling more present in their bodies
Lighter in their energy
Calmer, warmer, more human
Like they just spent time with others who actually get it
Like connection to themselves and others isn’t scary anymore
This isn’t trite self-love. This is expanding self-love into your external environment, by cultivating it internally.
event details
Let self-love pour into your body and your relationships for the first time in years (if ever).
Date: Monday, February 9th
Time: 5:30pm MST
Location: Online via Zoom
Investment: $11 ($8 early bird price until January 31st)
Duration: 75-minutes
(Yes, there will be a replay if you can’t make it live.)
FAQs
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I hear you, because I’ve thought the same thing myself.
I’ve done the trainings, the workshops, the certifications. I’ve worked with therapists, coaches, healers… all of it.
And the only spaces that ever helped had one thing in common: I felt safe being myself.
It sounds simple (because it is, and people want to overcomplicate it), but when someone treats you like a project, a problem, or something to “fix,” you start to see yourself as broken.
Here, you’re seen as whole, human, complex, and capable—and our work is helping you experience that in your body.
It’s actual self-love.
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One night, 75-minutes, tools for a lifetime.
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Yes! A recording will be sent to everyone who couldn’t attend live.
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Yes! This is virtual so ladies can join from all over the globe.
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I’m not orthodox. I don’t play by specific rules or fit people into boxes, because healing doesn’t happen here. Healing happens when you’re mirrored safety in being authentic.
Beyond this, you mirror who you’re around—so when you’re around a group of ladies who emanate this safety, along with confidence, love, freedom, and expression—you reflect this energy as well.
I will encourage you to be “too much” here. And you’ll find that we’re all just like you.
You’ll find you’re easy to love. -
Please bring all the anxiety and weirdness to the table. I still struggle with anxiety in new situations because, well, it’s new. We’ll make space for you. Or if you need to hide, we’ll respect that. This is a safe space with very low expectations.
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You can sign up by clicking any of the buttons on the page that say things like, “I’m in” or “Sign up here”
What People Are Saying
Tora is the best! She is knowledgeable re the mind-body connection and can work deeply with me on these matters. She is a true gem!!
—Vicki H.
Thank you, what a lovely warm container! Thanks Tora!
—Jenna C.
This woman (Tora) is really fucking smart.
—Macey M.
ready to join the circle?
Your body already knows if this is for you.
Trust the pull.
And enjoy an easy night designed for you to drop into your own arms and into the arms of women who are ready to hold you.